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SEX WITH A STRANGER: INTERVIEW WITH A HEALTH CLUB WORKER

By TD Houchen, Photos by Mayo Takao

Come on. Admit it. You’ve wondered what exactly goes on in those “Health Clubs” that you can’t get into, and that are sprinkled all over town. You’ve seen them, almost fully-nude pictures of luscious-looking
Japanese women brazenly displayed
on the buildings’ exterior, places called
“Mothers” or “Ecstacee” or “Bus Stop” or whatever.

Well, leave it to ya boy, me, big
TD, to dig up the dirt so you don’t have to. I hustled up a real sex worker andsat honey down and chatted her upover toast, coffee, and French fries ata local Denny’s for a few hours about her life, her work, her thoughts and her feelings about her job, which is, to pleasure Japanese men for dough 8 to 10 hours a day, 6 days a week. The things we do for yen, everyone is a prostitute at some level, someone once said that I think, and if not, I just did.
She was very “normal”, very
forthcoming, and very attractive.
Peep Game.

TD: So, what’s your name?
SW: “Mie”.
TD: Okay Mie, how old are you?
M: I’m 27.
TD: You’re very cute.
M: Thank you, you too.
TD: Go easy Mie, I’m a professional.
M; Sorry..
TD: Where do you live?
M: Nagoya, but I’m from Gifu
TD: Enough with the tiny talk, how long
have you been doing this work Mie?
M: One year or so..
TD: How did you get into this line of
business?
M: I was approached by the guys who
stand on the street, you know, with the
funny hair and pointed shoes, they are
“scouts”, they asked me if I was looking
for a job..


TD: Were you?
M: Yes, but I wasn’t looking for this
kind of job. I was looking for a job as
a cabaret girl, or a “regular” job to do
during the day….
TD: What did the scout say to you to
make you interested in doing this work?
M: He asked me to get into the
sex/Health Club industry right off. I
wasn’t sure, but he was very kind. I was
surprised. I was told that people in that
industry are all mafia-related, but the
guy who approached me wasn’t. He was
kind and so I felt I could trust him, so I decided to try it.
TD: What is the hardest thing about
doing this job?
M: Getting the customers hearts.
TD: Why do you want their hearts?
M: Because if I can get their heart, then
they will become regulars, you know,
repeat customers. I want to have the
same customers for myself because if I can get repeats, then I can get a steady
income. This job is very unstable..
TD: What do you do to get their hearts?
M: Well, I try to keep a smile on my face
always, and I try to put myself in their
shoes. I try to communicate with them
from their perspective, and I try hard to
make sure they enjoy their time with me,
but it is difficult to catch their hearts….
(She sighs heavily).
TD: Describe a session with a customer,
how does it all go down? (Pun kind of
intended..)
M: They come into the room. We greet
each other. Then we speak a little, small
talk. Then maybe we have a hug, then we
take off our clothes and take a shower,
then we have ‘mat play’, then we have
‘bed play’. After that we take another
shower, touch our bodies together, then
we talk again a little, maybe smoke a
cigarette, then we say goodbye.

TD: Sounds almost quaint. How long is
one session usually?
M; They can pay for one hour or two
hours, 60 minutes or 120 minutes.
TD: Is there any part of the session that
you especially like?
M: I like the talking when it’s all over,
because then I can know it’s over.
TD: Which part(s) do you not like?
M; The hardest part is kissing the
customers, and doing the sexual
things, because the customer is not my
boyfriend, he’s just a customer…
TD: How can you prepare your mind
and body to do these intimate things
with perfect strangers?
M: What’s perfect about them?
TD: It’s a term we use in English to
describe..nevermind, I mean, how can
you do these things with people you
don’t know at all?
M: It’s just work. I tell myself over and
over, “…this is my job, this is my job..”,
so that is what I think, it’s just a job i’m
doing now.
TD: Have you ever found yourself turned
on by any of your customers? Sexually or
otherwise?
M: I have been sexually turned on, and, I
fell in love with one of my customers, but
usually, anytime I find myself thinking,
“this feels good”, I’m surprised.
TD: Are you turned on by me right now?
M: Relax. You should relax.
TD: You’re right. So what made you fall
in love with that particular customer?
M: First, I thought he was handsome,
he was my type. Then after we were
together, we began exchanging emails. I
came to find out he was really, genuinely
kind, but eventually, I found it wasn’t
real love, just infatuation…


TD: How can you prepare your mind
and body to do these intimate things
with perfect strangers?
M: What’s perfect about them?
TD: It’s a term we use in English to
describe..nevermind, I mean, how can
you do these things with people you
don’t know at all?
M: It’s just work. I tell myself over and
over, “…this is my job, this is my job..”,
so that is what I think, it’s just a job i’m
doing now.
TD: Have you ever found yourself turned
on by any of your customers? Sexually or
otherwise?
M: I have been sexually turned on, and, I fell in love with one of my customers, but usually, anytime I find myself thinking, “this feels good”, I’m surprised.
TD: Are you turned on by me right now?
M: Relax. You should relax.
TD: You’re right. So what made you fall in love with that particular customer?
M: First, I thought he was handsome,
he was my type. Then after we were
together, we began exchanging emails. I
came to find out he was really, genuinely
kind, but eventually, I found it wasn’t
real love, just infatuation…
TD: So, it is possible for the workers to find love in these places..
M: Yes.
TD: Do you like being sexually
on while you are
working? Or do you prefer to just think ‘it’s a job’ and get it
over with?
M: The best way is for me to be naturally turned on by my customers, but most times, it isn’t like that, so, I close my eyes and imagine he
is my boyfriend.
TD: Do you think this work degrades
women?
M: At first, I wondered if men thought
the women who do this kind of work are unclean, but I do think it gives women a bad image-inside of myself, I am always fighting with my own feelings..
TD: Are you and any of the other workers very close friends?
M: No, we have shallow friendships
only.
TD: So you have a boyfriend..
M: Yes.
TD: Does he know about your job?
M; No, he doesn’t.
TD: What’s his number? Just joking,
ah, what does he think you do for your money?

M: He thinks I work at a cabaret club.
TD: If he knew about your real job, what do you think he would do? How would he take it?
M: I think he’d break up with me.
TD: So you’ll never tell him about what you do?
M: I don’t think so.
TD: Is it easy for you to become sexually aroused with your boyfriend after a day of doing this work?
M: For a while, after work, I didn’t feel
anything with my boyfriend, so I decided that on the day that I know I will meet my boyfriend, I take that day off.
TD: Nice of you…do you ever feel that
you are cheating on him?
M: In the beginning I did, but now I just tell myself “it’s just work, it’s business”, and I’m okay with it.
TD: How much longer do you plan to
do this?
M: Maybe one more year..
TD: How long to most women do this
type of work?
M: The longest I’ve heard is 10 years, but women who are doing this move around from club to club, the average length of time I think is like 2 to 3 years. Women don’t stay at the same place though, they move around.
TD: What is your opinion of the men
who are your customers?
M: They want a sexual experience
they can’t get from their wives or their
girlfriends, simple really. I have no
special opinion of them.
TD: Do you think the men who come
to Health Clubs are cheating on their
partners?
M: I don’t think it’s cheating, I think it’s a way these men can enjoy their lives.
TD: If you were married and discovered your husband had been going to a place like where you work, how do you think you would feel?
M: I would be okay with it, but really, I wouldn’t want to know about it, it’s his business what he is doing, I don’t want to know.
TD: If you were the boss of one of these establishments, what would be different?
M: I would be more caring to the girls.
Many of the women working in this
industry have lots of problems personally
and at the job. I would listen to the girls
more and talk to them and care for them.
The bosses insist we work even when we
are menstruating, so, I would care more
about the girls.
TD: Foreigners are not allowed at 98
percent of these places, why is that?


M: Communication is difficult. Words
and gestures aren’t the same. Plus,
foreigners have more disease than
Japanese, Japanese think foreign women
have many sexually transmitted diseases,
so naturally, foreign men do too.
TD: Really? Wow. Would you let
foreigners come in if you were boss?
M: Maybe, it depends on what he looks
like, if he can speak any Japanese..
TD: Would you let me in?…nevermind..
how many customers do you see in any
average day?
M: 3 or 4, the most was 14 in one day.
TD: Wow. That beats my one day record
by about 13, no, 12, no, 11, well, no,
she didn’t count, so 12. Wow. 14. You
must have felt really tired.
M: Yes, it was a long day.
TD: What was the strangest request you
ever received?
received?
M: A man brought rope and tied me up,
it was fun for him but not for me, another
customer asked me to punch him in his
stomach as hard as I could…he almost
vomited but that’s what he liked, that al-
most-vomiting feeling.
TD: Yeah, I used to like that too, but I sorta grew out of it.
Last question, do you have any coupons
or anything, I mean like a free pass, or
is there like a back door or something…
M: (Nervous laughter, followed by
nervous silence.) No, I don’t.
TD: Anything else you’d like to add? ( A
little pissed.)
M: I am not ashamed of my work. I think
it is important to keep sexual desire in
order to feel alive and vigorous. My
older customers are very “genki” and
alive and it is because they have kept
their sexual desire.
TD: Thank you for your time, can I eat
your french fries?
M: I gotta go..
..and then, just like that, she got up
and bounced off, leaving me and my
translator eating cold fries and feeling….
frisky.


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